A CALENDAR FOR HIM       12 Months Prior to Wedding       If not already done, pick up bride's engagement ring       If wedding expenses will be shared, discuss all details with       fiancé and all parents. Choose the best man and groomsmen.       Recommendation is one usher per 50 guest.       9 Months Prior to Wedding       Arrange visit with officiant or clergy member to discuss the       ceremony. Schedule a visit to the bridal registry with your       fiancé. Complete first draft of your guest list. Consult a travel       agent for honeymoon ideas, and discuss with your fiancé.       6 Months Prior to Wedding       Order boutonnieres and corsages, and arrange to pay for       the brides bouquet. Finalize all your honeymoon plans,       make hotel and airline reservations. Update your passports       if traveling abroad. Make all transportation arrangements to       the ceremony and reception for the wedding party. Consult       with your parents and plan the rehearsal dinner