Things to Think About       Tips for Bartenders, DJ, and Limousine driver.       Practice dancing together for your first dance.       If you are planning and outdoor ceremony:       Check with local government office to see if you need a permit.       Visit the out-door site at the same day of the week and the       same hour that you scheduled the ceremony to hear the       sounds your guests are likely to encounter.  If noise is a       problem, trellis or canvas screens may be the solution, or start       your ceremony at a quieter time of day.       Remind Groomsmen (and the ring-bearers parents) that       dress hose and black tuxedo shoes are appropriate for a       black-tie wedding.       Break in your shoes before the Wedding Day: Scuff the soles       and wear them indoors for an hour every day for at       least two weeks.